To be able to cum with me, you must first earn it in stoke points. My blog has a gallery photo page, and I require worship strokes for each picture. One picture a day, an email sent to me to report that you have given me five edges without cumming. So, you will have to go through the whole selection before you get the final instruction on the bottom of this post.

Oh gee….I’m not sure exactly how many pictures are on there. Now in your email I want the details of each picture right down to the fingernail, how long it took you, if you stroked all at once or divided the five edges through out the day, what was going through your little head. I want to know how hard the cock was, which picture made you the hardest, which picture teased you the most, and if you deserve to cum.

Sometimes with this tease assignment, boys have been inspired to make some very impressive collages with all of the pictures. If you are artistic and your little head inspires you to worship me in this way, than a final assignment may actually be a marathon orgasm session.

This assignment has many purposes. It will sharpen your observation skills, it will teach you the art of tease and denial leaving you with a smile of satisfaction, and once you do get to cum, it will be so much more rewarding.

I’m looking forward to your daily viewing, daily edging, maybe a collage, and finally your gift from me.

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Hey there all of you sexy strokers! I know that you think that stroking your cock is the way to go. I know that many of you stroke it daily, if not a couple (or many!) times a day. BUT, what if I were to tell you that it is much, much hotter NOT to stroke. Well, I have done the research and there are many, many men who are choosing not to touch themselves. You know what happens when they make that kind of decision? Well, they are soooo turned on by just about everything! They just see a pretty woman and their cocks get rock hard instantly! And, there is a rush that comes with NOT touching.You have a feeling of extreme self-satisfaction, accompanied by a raging bulge in your pants! How cool is that? Also, it makes you a much better lover, since you are “locked and loaded,” so to speak.

It’s a pretty amazing discipline to develop, and, if you are so inclined, I encourage you to try! It’s worth, a, um, er, shot, right? And who knows, perhaps you will find that not stroking your cock to orgasm every time you feel the urge is really a hell of a lot hotter that just indulging yourself each and every time you feel the need. You just never know what kind of reward you might get for being so stoic! If your cock is hard and ready for fun, you will be like the cab with its light on during rush hour in Times Square! Ready to roll, baby! And, you know how we women…

~ Ms Courtney ~

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I collected a few responses about ruined orgasms, mainly from subs and 1 Mistress. It was exciting to read and really feel the words of each response! While all experiences involving ruined orgasms were similar, they were also unique to each person.  The responses were all so delicious!!

Mistress Josephine, whom I adore, gave her opinion:
I love the power and the rush I get from this activity! I do different ways of build up, and lots of teasing. I have done the head stimulation, and made him give me adjectives to describe the feelings as I was doing the stimulation. That was amazing to do and watch! I like the idea of a slower build up, and just getting to the point of no return and stopping. For ruining I like palming and thumbing.

Sub L Stated:
 For me i can usually have the stroking stopped at least a good couple of seconds before i start cumming perhaps. Also something that is evil is after he’s done orgasming, concentrate and stimulate the head like crazy hard and fast that can ruin any pleasurable feelings.

Sub K Says:
If my Mistress stops me at a different point, the “Point of No Return” (Much easier to find), I’ll have a ruined orgasm, where I’ll have just a little tiny bit of pleasure leading up to the ejaculation, then ejaculate with virtually no pleasure. It leaves me feeling like I really did cum. Very relieving, actually, yet frustratingly unsatisfying.

Sub M chimed in:
The place I love to hate is when she gets me to the point where, she’ll let go, and my cock will throb, twitch and try to cum, sometimes giving up a single spurt, but most often just one bead of cum emerges at the tip… not exactly a ‘classic’ ruined orgasm, but wonderfully frustrating and leaves me crazy to cum.

Sub C. Had a comment:
I find they are most effective after long periods of tease and denial. When I am brought right near the edge and left without stimulation I can have one of the most unsatisfying orgasms. Essentially I get a mild pulse which causes the cum to dribble out without force. There is no pleasure or euphoric feeling that follows. It’s almost like being milked except that muscles are actually funneling the fluid out.
In order to make it effective i have to be in a position where the penis does not touch anything and is dangling between my legs. Even letting it pop back against the body is enough to trigger a different feeling and cause a full orgasm. Also this dribbling cannot be achieved if I have any type of anal toy inserted.

Sub G was one of the last to offer his opinion:
For me, ruined orgasms are at their most effective, uhm, frustratingly arousing but leaving me horny as anything, when all stimulation stops just at the point of ejaculation. I think.
It is interesting because how satisfying vs. frustrating seems to vary at times. There seems to be something going on that may be independent of ejaculation. Perhaps there is something to the idea that ejaculation and orgasm are two separate things. At any rate, sometimes the level of frustration is far higher, and I am much less satisfied than other times. But this seems to vary between her stopping a split second before cumming, vs. stopping just as I ejaculate.

So much fun, and so many who love Ruined Orgasms as much as I do! I would love to hear your experiences with Ruined Orgasms, or would love to help guide you to one! Here at Teasemafia, I really don’t ever want you to have a real orgasm, you know! Ruining them is so much more fun for me. Want an assignment? Oh yes you do! Click the audio.

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I LOVE Ruining Orgasms! Call me mean, but it gets me wet!! My passion for this started with tease and denial. Getting up to higher numbers was my goal so I could see much twitching and leaking.
Then I started to push subs higher. I told subs to get to the brink of an orgasm, like the point of no return, to tell me, and I would stop. I can do several of these cycles in a row with minutes, up to 5 in between. At times there has been some shooting/dripping with the spasms which seem stronger. If in the mood, the last orgasm I allow is a complete one. That is usually just a bit of leaking, but very strong contractions.
So, I have been thinking of ruined orgasms and am wondering if I could be doing more. One sub sent an email which I have reprinted with his permission, of course:
“Playing the other night was very intense and HOT! The feelings were very intense every time you almost got me off… and it still left me very aroused, hard, and wanting more, and finally wanting you to just let me have that explosive orgasm.
The ruined orgasm felt like this: I got feelings of an orgasm, then barely started to ejaculate and you just stopped stimulation. I was actually ejaculating but in drips, not in spurts, and the intense feelings of the orgasm were pretty much over. I love being controlled by you!
So, I asked some kink friends what They liked about Ruined Orgasms or what their experiences were.  I will make that a part two to this topic. 

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The art of the tease is pretty simple for Me. All that is needed is a
great deal of desire and then just add a touch of lust and presto,
instant bliss is achieved. It is harder
for a man to tease and deny than a woman. It almost goes against the
very nature of a man to deny a woman what she wants. Why would he
ever want to deny her? So I feel if a man can tease and deny himself,
he will be pretty incredible in bed. One thing I truly enjoy is when
it is mutual. If both partners are in a place where neither party can
leave, then the fun can really begin.

If you wish for it to be a mutual session of tease and denial then I
suggest being sexually frustrated in public places. An example of
this would be taking your lover to a place where you will not be able
to touch her. One of the things I absolutely love to do is to wear
bright panties and a flirty skirt. I wear clothing where you can just
barely see the lace on My thigh highs. It gives my lover an idea of
what he might be able to expect later on while we are alone in my
bedroom.

Of course it also doesn’t help his frustration when I accidentally
flip the back of My skirt up so he sees My bright pink satin panties
framing my firm ass.

What can I say, I live to inspire….
I look forward to speaking to you soon and inspiring you with my mind,
body and voice.

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